It has been 7 years since I last hugged you, Dad. Not a day goes by that I don’t miss you. I still remember the lilac bush outside our home, and how you and I would pick the blooms together when I was a little girl. I began writing this poem to my kids to let them know I’m always there even when I’m not “there.” I found myself thinking of you and I felt your presence. So this poem ended up also being a tribute to you, Dad. Thank you for always encouraging me and loving me. Nothing can erase the sadness I oftentimes feel – especially the times I feel cheated that you are not here to see your grandchildren grow. But the lilacs (and anything lavender) help ease my pain. Purple is still my favorite color. I love you.
PURPLE LILACS
When I am gone you needn't cry Or shed a tear for me As I am with you always In your heart is where I'll be When you see a majestic butterfly Flutter in all its beautiful glory It is me dancing, encouraging you To remain steadfast in the creation of your story When you smell the fragrant purple lilacs Bloom and permeate the spring It is me softly whispering to you That you can be and do anything When you taste a delightful meal That is reminiscent of our blessed Home It is me tenderly reminding you That you will never be alone When you hear the rhythmic ocean waves Swoosh and kiss the sandy shore It is me singing to you a lullaby To dream, achieve and explore When you feel the vibrant sun And Summer's breeze upon your adoring face It is the warmth of my Faith that surrounds you Guiding you to poise, and peace, and Grace So smile and live fully with no regrets Embrace the happiness and the sorrow For yesterday led you to today And it is my Love that will carry you to tomorrow